Friday, December 24, 2010

हाय रे नववर्ष....!

प्रत्येक वर्षं नववर्ष कहलाता है !
एक वर्ष क़े बाद पुनः नववर्ष आता है !
एक माह क़े बाद नया माह आता !
रात क़े बाद आने वाला दिन कहलाता !
वे तो नए आते ही रहते है !
सिर्फ हम वही पुराने रह जाते है !
लकीर क़े फकीर बने रहते है !
उन्ही लकीरों में फंसे रह जाते है !
नववर्ष में हम क्यों नहीं नए हो जाते !
कुछ ऐसे ही प्रश्न मुझे रहते है सताते !
इन सब को तो हम नया रूप देते है !
अपने ही पैरो पर कुल्हाड़ी मारते है !
वह हमे क्यों नहीं बदलता है !
लकीर तोड़ने पर विवश करता है !
वह हमे तो नहीं बदल पाता है !
बल्कि हमे बदलने क़े प्रयास में, 
बेचारा वह स्वयम बदल जाता है !

Why can’t we turn Defeat in to Victory…!!

         As every body knows the difference between success and failure which is found in one’s attitude towards setbacks, handicaps, discouragements, and other disappointing situations. We can turn our defeat in to victory with the help of following few points:-

1. Firstly, we should study setbacks to pave our way to success. When we lose, definitely we learn some more and then go on to win next time surely.
2. Critics plays very important role in our life. We should have the courage to be our own constructive critic. We have to seek out our faults and weaknesses and then correct them in turn it will make us a professional.
3. What is luck… please don’t blame luck and keep researching each setback. At the same time we should find out what went wrong, how and why…?. Please keep in mind that blaming luck never got anyone where he wanted to go.
 4. Keep blending persistence with experimentation to stay with our goal but at the same time, we need not to beat our head against a stone wall. It is very logical to try new approaches and experiment.
5. It is a universal truth that there is a good side in every situation which we have to find out by whipping discouragement.
                            And then....just see the smiling result......!! 


उनकी यह अदा लगती है बड़ी प्यारी....
   कहने को तो बहुत कुछ है कह जाते !
       लेकिन जब कुछ करने को कहो...
          तो,न जाने कैसे, कब हवा हो जाते!!  

  अग्नि क़े सामने वचन देते है...
     सातों वचन निभाने का !

         आज उन्हें कोई पूछे....
             क्या एक भी वचन याद है...?

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Why we are more conscious about our children….?

It is rather more difficult to answer, especially for a simple reason that so many factors are involved in it. If we go little behind to our own childhood, still we remember that between five children, it was very difficult for our parents to pay that much attention individually to every one, which was in fact expected at that time from them. Even today I remember when I was in seventh standard. That was the day of my final exam’s result. However, when I came to know that I stood first in the class, immediately I ran towards my home to tell them about my glorious success because at that time it was very biggest thing for me. When my report card was in my father’s hand, to my surprise he told me that very first time he came to know that I was in seventh standard.

Now, just imagine regarding the happiness of that child whose father was even not aware about the status of his own son that in which class he was studying. So, as the days passed and we came in place of our father, we have decided that history should not repeat in any case. That was the very first factor, which I took very seriously.

Regarding other factors, the same can’t be narrated at a time because it may differ from individual to individual. In fact, what I have observed now a days that parents are very conscious. That is not a case but these things are related with their feeling. They might be thinking about the facilities, which were not available to them at that time when they were kids. It is very obvious, as every parent like their kid very much, as he or she may be which a universal truth is.

However, we should be little bit conscious before providing ample facilities. It may be possible that their some demands may not be having that much important or such demand may be only due to reason that some other guy is already having it. At this juncture, it is our duty to let them explain regarding the needs of the thing which they are demanding for. It is our duty to realize them about our hard earned money. It’s very true that we are having lot to do for them but before fulfilling it, little care must be taken.

Sunday, December 19, 2010


वे, बार बार किये जा रहे थे, स्टेटस को अपडेट...!
बेचारे परेशां थे, किसी ने न दिया कोई कमेन्ट...!!
हमने उन्हें धीरज दिलाया ....!
खुशफहमी में जीना सिखलाया...!!
कमेन्ट लिखना भी है, एक आर्ट..!
हर कोई नहीं होता उतना स्मार्ट..!!
कमेन्ट नहीं लिखे जाते, केवल लिखने क़े लिए...!
बल्कि लिखे जाते है बात को आगे बढ़ाने क़े लिए....!!
कमेन्ट क़े लिए आवश्यक है एक चिंतन !
समयानुकूल एक.. गहरा आत्म-मंथन !!
यह नहीं है, कोई "लाईक" क्लिक की बटन
कि जब चाहा दबा दी....!!

Saturday, December 18, 2010

नई सुबह

इसके पहले क़े सब कुछ लूट जाये..!
चलो,एक बार तो हम होश में आये...!!
राह तक रहे हम सब...
कौन किसकी आंख खोले ....!
भला हो जायेगा जग का,
गर, सिर्फ अपनी-अपनी ही खोले....!!
तुम्हारी पलकों का झपकना,
मद भरी नजरो का उठना....!
उन नशीली आखों का खुलना,
लाजिमी है मेरा इंतजार करना....!!

देखो, हो गई ना हमारी बात सच...
क्या खुलवाने चले थे...और क्या खोल रहे है....?